Transcending the Quarterlife Crisis
Twentysomething angst has launched a new movement
July / August 2004
Eliza Thomas Utne magazine
Oprah dedicated a show to it, bloggers have ranted about it, and
punk bands on both coasts have named themselves after it. It even
has its own shelf in the self-help section of the bookstore.
There's no question that the 'quarterlife crisis' -- a term
referring to the emotional upheaval experienced by many in their
20s -- has morphed beyond a catchy phrase into a bona fide social
trend. Some even predict that it will eclipse midlife as the crisis
du jour.
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But it is real? Today's young adults are admittedly not the
first twentysomethings to grapple with postcollegiate angst and
disillusion. The 1967 film classic The Graduate suggested that, for
the Boomer generation, a certain amount of confusion and fear were
part and parcel of the transition to adulthood. But the challenges
confronting today's graduates are arguably different from those
their parents faced.
In fact, the very transition period from adolescence to
adulthood has become more significant and prolonged, according to a
2003 report from the University of Chicago's National Opinion
Research Center. Most Americans, the report shows, believe
'adulthood' doesn't begin until age 26, with college-educated
Americans pushing that number even higher, to 28 or 29.
If adolescence ends before 20, and full-fledged adulthood
doesn't start until near 30, it's no wonder that many of today's
twentysomethings are experiencing a discomforting sense of
instability. Jeffrey Arnett, research associate professor of human
development at the University of Maryland, calls this limbo period
'emerging adulthood.' Arnett believes that a societal shift over
the past 50 years has led to a new generation of young people who
are delaying the traditional rites of passage into adulthood. They
are taking longer to finish school, are exploring more relationship
options before committing to marriage and kids, and are inclined to
hop from career to career and from city to city. Add to this mix
increased student loan debt, a sluggish economy, and an anemic job
market -- not to mention average twentysomethings' self-induced
pressure to maintain or exceed the level of affluence they grew up
with -- and a quarterlife crisis begins to make sense.
'I believe that the quarterlife crisis will essentially replace
the midlife crisis for our generation,' Abby Wilner, coauthor of
the New York Times best-seller Quarterlife Crisis: The Unique
Challenges of Life in Your Twenties (J.P. Tarcher), recently
told The Sydney Morning Herald (March 9, 2004). 'It's
taking us so long to get all that our parents complained about at
midlife -- the house, car, and kids -- that once we do finally
settle down, we'll feel so relieved that I don't think we'll want
to change anything.'